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IN MINAM: The Celebration of Chuck's life was held on June 28th at the Schoolhouse.
IN MEDFORD: The Celebration of Life for Chuck was held on June 21, 2008, @ Under the Greenwood Tree
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I am sitting here, still in shock, just recently learning of Chuck's passing. My sincerest condolences to his family.
Chuck and I only met once. He wrote a chapter in Gateway to the Wallowa's and so did I. Chuck wrote in detail of the Minam area and I wrote about the river that runs through it. Chuck's writings were much better than mine. We met in Wallowa at the book signing in Irene Barklow's house. Some people make an instant connection and that was the case with Chuck and I. We spent hours talking about Bessie and Minam on Top and an endless string of past happenings. He filled the room with laughter - but that seems to have been the normal for Chuck.
A year or so later we talked on the telephone. Chuck said "Come on over and visit." I never did. Lots of excuses - none of them any good. I just always figured the visit would happen 'someday'. . . but it didn't.
What I do know, is the Bible plainly states that God had prepared a mansion for Chuck. It probably looks a bit like an old schoolhouse. I also know that I will see him again - and boy, will we have some catching up to do. And we will have an eternity to do it in. I have read Psalms 91:1-4 over and over. It gives me great comfort and I respectfully extend it to Chuck's family. I was blessed to have known Chuck.
With Christian love for Chuck and his family,
Mike Middleton
I STILL THINK OF CHUCK, FROM TIME TO TIME...MOSTLY WHEN I'M LANDSCAPING MY YARD....
LOVE YA DUDE ! HEY FAMILY !
Chuck was AWESOME i loved him lots ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ i wish he was stil here with us today but f****** cancer had to claime his life today we remember him as funny loving FUN and that we all miss him alot
Today I reflect on the fact that on April 4th, Daddy left us and joined you. He slipped away peacefully with his hand in Mothers. Quietly, magically, moving into that world none of us can imagine...All I know is that he is with you now and we don't have to worry about him anymore. His quality of life wasn't the same after the surgery...he just couldn't recover. And slowly he moved on. He was a special man, one that loved me unconditionally, and that meant alot to me. He was always a straight forward man, telling you just what was on his mind. But the thing I will remember the most were two of his last three weeks here. I got such quality time with him while he was in the hospital. Spending the night with him, spending his days with him...getting that special time. I must have kissed him three times a day. And every day we said I love you to each other. I got my share of him during his last weeks. Thank you Dad for being my Dad, for loving me no matter what, and for always watching out for me. I will miss you. Bye bye Daddy.
Brother,
Your birthday is coming around soon. In just a few days, which makes me think about you even more. I had a beautiful visit from you in my dreams the other day...we walked and talked, partied alittle bit, and you said, "I love you sis" to me. It was all very clear, yes so clear that in church last night it made me cry. It still makes me cry right now as I miss you sooo much. Memories of your last days crush me and I can't shake them. It is all still to fresh. The nice thing is that I can talk to Mom about my feelings and she wants to share them...Dad on the other hand can't. It just hurts too bad. Not to say that it doesn't hurt Mom, but she holds onto you memory with her claws and won't let go. God bless her heart. We will be thinking of you on your birthday brother and will remember the wonderful things about you and will miss you especially on that day. We love you.
I miss you brother and I think of you so often. I hear somgs in my head about you, and sing them quietly to myself. I want to call you and talk to you. Have you come over to visit. I sometimes feel like it is all a dream. An awful dream. I love you so.
that was from jesse:niece
we all luve you uncal chuck ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
Well, the Celebration of Life for Chuck in Medford was beautiful. There were about 150 people there. Many of Chuck's old friends, friends of Mom and Dads were there. It was a beautiful day, Steve Skinner lead the Celebration, Chuck's kids spoke and his sisters spoke too. Then Mike Mattson sang In the Garden with his guitar. It was great. Then there was lots of food and drink for everyone. It lasted well into the evening and was a great success.
Then the Celebration for Chuck in Minam the following weekend. A great gathering of Chuck's friends, probly about 80-90 people there. Gabe lead the Celebration and did a great job. Even Dillon tried to get in on talking on the microphone. But the greatest thing I saw was when June got up to share about Chuck....she shared many memories with us about Thanksgiving in the wild. they were great stories. But the best part was when she said she had a song to sing to Chuck. Now, while Chuck was still alive, the last two days, I got a song stuck in my head and couldn't get rid of it. It played over and over again while I was with him....then June gets up and says she wants to sing "I'll Fly Away"......that was the song. It was then that I knew Chuck was with me, telling me that he would never leave me and that he would be with me always. The lyrics go like this......"I'll fly away oh Glory, I'll fly away.....when I die halleluah by and by, I'll fly away".
Now that these Celebration are all over, we can put Chuck to rest. Letting our memories of him be our guide to never forgetting him. Letting him live in our hearts now with us forever. Fly away Chuck. I love you.
What a wonderful celebration! Thanks Chuck, you will live within us forever.
Well tomorrow will be the day to finally come together and celebate the Life of Chuck Fleser. I regret that myself and my family have decided to attend the celibration in Minam on the 28th and will not becoming to Medford. My thoughts and spirit will be with you all and I hope it is a wonderous day filled with stories, friendship and Love.
We re all on the same journey together, our paths may be different, but the destination is the same. We all want to find our way home, to spend eternity, spiritually conected for all time with those we love.
Chuck,
I will Love, Honor and Cherrish the time we had together. I will hold you close to my heart always. I am eternally grateful for the many gifts you gave us all.
"WALK SLOWLY MY BELOVED FRIEND AND WE WILL ALL CATCH UP"
Until then
Much Love
Bruce, Judy, TJ and Jesse
I am so glad that my daughter, Allysa, and I lived at the bottom of the eighth street hill near the college in the late 70's, early 80's in La Grande. Chuck would stop by and share a meal, a joke, or just quite time with us. He was a friend that the neighbor's two teenage girls loved to sing, Chuckie's in Love to, but we were just friends and he laughed everytime they came over to sing him that! Allysa loved his gentle heart. Many times friends came over to play music and he would stay to listen and smile.
I hadn't seen him in years and was told ,by a mutual friend ,that he lost his battle against cancer. He was so young and bright. I am sure that his children will reflect his guiding light.
I know this was a while ago but what a wonderful article for people to read. Hope you enjoy sharing it as much as I did.
Oregon Tourism honors Fleser
award winner: Chuck Fleser, pictured here with his long-time friend and companion Dawn Smith, received the Gene Leo Memorial Award at the Governor’s Conference on Tourism held in Portland in April. Fleser, who was recognized for his work organizing fishing excursions on the Wallowa River, died May 22 of cancer. - Submitted photoChuck Fleser, a Wallowa County native whose family ties to Minam at the confluence of the Minam and Wallowa Rivers stretch back to the early 1900s, died of cancer May 22. He was 56.
But in April, before a crowd of 500 people at the Governors Conference on Tourism in Portland, Fleser received the Gene Leo Memorial Award for his work in furthering tourism.
The Oregon Tourism Commission selected Fleser for the honor because the fish excursions he organized in partnership with the Wallowa-Union Railroad drew hundreds of visitors to the Wallowa and Minam River scenic waterways.
“This award is a great honor in the tourism industry. Mr. Fleser is very well thought of amongst his peers,” said Linda Carlson of the Tourism Commission, which is also known also known as Travel Oregon.
Fleser was born in Wallowa County but raised in Medford. He graduated from Medford High School in 1970.
Always a lover of the outdoors, Fleser kept and cultivated his ties to Wallowa County, especially Minam. He returned there often to enjoy hunting and fishing.
In 2004, following a 20-year stint as a construction supply salesman in Medford, he took a seasonal job as a ranger aide with the Oregon Parks and Recreation Department, working as a caretaker at Minam State Park. He took up full-time residence in Minam, moving into a house he had bought from an aunt in the 1970s.
He and Gary Gettleman of Santa Monica, Calif., purchased the Minam Motel, which sits beside the Wallowa River near Oregon Highway 82. The motel had not seen much activity in recent years.
In hopes of improving area commercial activity, Fleser set about improving the property. He also teamed with the railroad to create an opportunity for anglers to ride the excursion train to prime fishing holes along the Wallowa.
In a February 2005 interview with The Observer, Fleser expressed high hopes for the project.
“It’s an unbelievable opportunity for day use of the wild and scenic corridor,” he said “It’s there for anybody, young or old, male or female, even handicapped people. It’s an opportunity to fish with elbow room, and see a place that’s really beautiful.”
The first of the “fish trains” organized by Fleser rolled down the river in early 2005. The trips became regular features of the local steelhead seasons.
Janet Dodson, executive director of Union County Tourism, said Fleser deserves credit for calling attention to the Wallowa-Union Railroad, the publically-owned line that runs regular excursions through the Grande Ronde River canyon.
“The fish train has brought a lot of additional attention to the railroad,” Dodson said. “It’s a unique fishing opportunity, and the story has been picked up by newspapers and magazines. It’s helped create interest in the excursions.”
The Gene Leo Memorial Award was established in 1994 to honor the late Gene Leo, known for his tourism contributions as director of the Oregon Zoo, Portland Rose Festival and the Portland Oregon Visitors Association (now Travel Portland).
Leo was an enthusiastic man who revered Oregon’s natural beauty, loved her people and enjoyed the outdoors with gusto.
The award recognizes an outstanding contribution for a tourism-related activity or attraction focused on Oregon’s natural beauty or outdoor recreation.
Mailed to the "Family of Chuck Fleser" by Lisa Hancock
I just wanted to let you all know what a privilege it was to care for Chuck. I was so saddened to hear of his death. I was with him when he got his cells and it was such an amazing experience. He was truly a special man and I am so glad I was able to share a small part of his remarkable life. I very much enjoyed the times we just sat and talked or watched a ball game together. He spoke often of you all especially of the grandchildren. I know he will be greatly missed.
With deepest sympathy,
Lisa Hancock, RN, NIH
To All of The Fleser Families:
My heart hurts for the loss of "Chucky". We first met when we were 2-3 years old. We ran around alot together and got into trouble together. Chuck lived on Willamette and the Brown's lived on Ashland. We then moved a block up on Main St. He was my Chucky and I was Janie. Chuck was always so much fun and we both laughed alot. We always told each other that we were the first to sleep with each other - Oh Stop - we were just 3,4,5 years old! I loved Chuck just like a brother - as if the three I had wasn't enough. Chuck loved to fish and would come to school telling of the "BIG" one. He and his Dad would go to Fish Lake and go to the same special place -he never did say where that was. For those of you that went to Roosevelt, remember Mr. Tegner? Well he was the math teacher and Chuck and I would be in competition for the last seat next to the window! That was for the one that got the best score on the test that week. It was a toss up - but Chuck probably won more. Back in those days we drew names to exchange gifts at Christmas. We were in Mrs. Hamilton's class. That year Chuck drew my name. To this day I still have that gift. It was a pair of Mr. and Mrs. Santas. Each year they have always been the first thing I put on my tree. Now they will mean even more! They are now my angles from Chuck. Chucky - you put up the battle of all battles. Now you can fly with the eagles!!
Love you forever - Janie
The Celebration of Chuck's life in Minam will happen on June 28, 3PM at the Schoolhouse. It will be done in the Wallowa County style.....Potluck!
my dear old unclel so frigid and frail
he once had cancer but now he has healed
he has lived a long life on earth in pain
but happy he was with family all day.
time was so scarce for it would be time for him to say so long
for he is ok in heaven he lives
than he said in a dream we will meet once again
I kept telling myselsf he would win i would tell my self this every day over and over but in the end he had left this world but forever more he lives in our hearts next to god and other loved ones we have lost over the years i will never forget him nor will anyone else
i loved him so verry much i dident get to say good bye but in my heart i say good bye every day in the morning and i say good morning and good night i miss him so so much
i had had a dream the other night something a always wanted to do whith him so he came in my sleep and we whent and searched for errowheads when i firs met him he gave an errowhead and i had thought i lost it so all morning i looked for it and found it i was so glad. goodbye uncal chuck i love you and miss you so much love your niece jesse
I have been on vacation and just learned of Chuck's passing today. What a wonderful man. I don't believe that he lost his battle - I believe that what he gave science will some day save lives and I am sure that would make Chuck very happy. I have worked with Chuck and Dawn for the last three years or so. They have shared some amazing stories with me and he let me in on a few of his dreams. I have been praying for his return to good health - now I will pray for his family and friends who loved him so much. I am so sorry for your loss, please know that he will be missed everywhere.
For those of you who didn't get to see this in Friday's paper in Medford.
Fleser, Charles Wayne (Chuck)
View/Sign Guest Book Charles (Chuck) Wayne Fleser
March 14, 1952 - May 22, 2008
Chuck Fleser was born March 14, 1952 to Lowell and Wilma Fleser in Enterprise, Ore. As an infant, he moved with his family to Medford, Ore., where his parents had met and married. Chuck grew up in Medford and graduated from Medford Senior High in 1970, where he was a member of the state football championship team. After high school, Chuck moved to Minam and purchased an old school house on the hill above the Wallowa River. He resided there for several years and temporarily moved to Portland and Medford, only to return to his beloved home in Minam.
He was an avid outdoorsman and environmentalist. He worked for the Oregon State Parks and Recreation Department and was a park ranger in Wallowa County. One of his great enjoyments was hunting and fishing with his grandfather, father, and later, his sons and partner.
In 2004, he purchased the Minam Motel and started his newest adventure. He had aspirations for the Motel and saw many of them come true. He was awarded the 2007 Gene Leo Memorial Award for his outstanding contributions and efforts in outdoor tourism, specifically for organizing the annual Wallowa County Steelhead Fishing Train. He readily shared the history of Minam and was always ready to tell a good story.
He is survived by his mother and father, Wilma and Lowell Fleser; his sons, Gabriel (wife, Leah) and Will (wife, Jessica); daughter, Hanna Rose; grandchildren, Dylan, Isabel, Grace and Nora; three sisters, Laurie Evans, Karen Tokuda, and Cynthia Gregg; nine nieces and nephews; and his companion of seven years, Dawn Smith.
A Celebration of Life for Chuck will be held on June 21, 2008 at 3:00 p.m. The location is: Under The Greenwood Tree, 3075 Bellinger Lane, Medford.
Information about the Celebration can also be found at
http://thetameracktree.editme.com.
The Fleser family wishes to convey a special thanks to Steven and Janet Skinner and the Legacy Hopewell Hospice House.
The grief DOES linger on. I find myself driving to work and my mind fixes on Chuck. How much I miss him, what life will be like without him. What will I do without my big brother. I often cry my way to work as it is one of the few moments I have alone. I hear a song or see something that reminds me of him and I can't believe he is gone. Gone but never forgotten. My mother pictures him in heaven holding hands with my Grandma and Grandpa Fleser. They were so fond of Chuck, she says he was the apple of their eye. A comforting though for me as well.
Everyone has put down such wonderful thoughts of Chuck that when I read the entries I feel the loss all over again. It was such a tremendous fight that man had yet he fought with such grace and strength. It was a fight he should have won. But heaven has an angel now that will be with me forever and I feel his presence all the time. I will miss his hugs and kisses and his infectious laughter, as many will. Once again, I mourn this loss.
The grief does come in waves doesn't it?
I try not to dwell on the hole in my heart his passing has created but force myself to think about how much Chuck has blessed us and brought us together.
If not for Chuck we would not have experienced: Minam, the motel, the high school friends, the river out back, the garden that he fed us from, the train, the fish that Jeff brought, the schoolhouse, the ospreys, the bats, the jam at the market, the pancake breakfast in the parking lot, baja, so many memories... all wonderful momentsthey linger on...
From reading the many responses from Chuck’s family and friends on this site, it appears Chuck learned that friends, loved ones, and friends who are loved ones are the only true assets one may possibly possess; a lesson we should all attempt to emulate.
My memories of Chuck are blurred by the many great memories of the “Fleser family”. That is, we were all cousins who lived, breathed, ate, vacationed, took swimming lessons, and occasionally went to the quarter movies together. There are many memories; however, some of the best were when our two families vacationed together at Lake of the Woods. Over the years, the Fleser and Trullinger children geographically relocated away from the Medford area. Living in the Midwest, contact was primarily during family anniversary reunions. At one of those reunions, I recall seeing Chuck, knowing it was Chuck, but how could it be? Chuck was now a man with children and grandchildren. He was the same likeable cousin, just older as we all were.
The legacy of Chuck will live on in his parents (Aunt Wilma and Uncle Lowell to me), his sisters, his children and grandchildren, and the many people whose lives were touched by having known Chuck.
Our condolences go to all of you who have lost a friend and/or a loved one with Chuck’s passing…especially to the Fleser family who will always have a special meaning in my life.
The Rick Trullinger Family
When I was a kid I would get so excited when Uncle Chuck was in town for a visit. He would stay at Grandma and Grandpa's house with his big black dog Eldar and he would bring the coolests gifts. One time he made Jason and me belt buckles from deer antlers. My favorite gift was a book about Chief Joseph of the Nez Perce tribe.
Back in '93 I shared Chuck's house with him and his dog, Jake, in St. Helens. During this time Chuck did a lot of running in a wooded park near the house. His legs were like tree trunks. I set up a microbrewery in the basement and we always had fresh brews on tap in the kitchen. His favorite was a sour mash wheat beer that I brewed and kegged with cherry juice. Man, I think we finished that off in one weekend. Chuck would cook up awesome pot roasts, so although we were bachelors, it was Fat City. I remember one night when we decided to hit all of the bars in St. Helens. Not a small feat because there were as many bars in St. Helens as there were churches-- a lot. We narrowly dodged a bar-room brawl and ended up at some dive where we played a really bad game of pool. That night I learned a lesson about mixing my alcohols: beer then liquor never sicker, liquor then beer have no fear.
On Memorial Day weekend in '93 we set off on a trip to Minam. Chuck's truck had tranny problems when we reached the Dalles, so we turned back and limped to St. Helens. He was so stoked that we made it back that he wanted to hit the strip clubs and buy some lottery tickets because we were so damn lucky. I talked him into loading up our gear into my pickup and taking another shot at getting to Minam. We arrived in Minam at about 1:00 AM and we unloaded my truck and slept in our sleeping bags shoulder-to-shoulder under the stars. The sky was beautiful and although it was a bit cramped, we slept very soundly that night. That weekend we mountain biked with Gabe, Will, Ann, and Doug. Gabe, Will, and I fished the bank behind the motel and after we caught almost every fish in the Wallowa we pan fried trout over our camp fire for dinner.
Last spring we had a wonderful visit with Chuck at Grandma and Grandpa's. This time he brought a really good bottle of wine from Roxy Ann. We sat by the pool, enjoyed the bottle, and talked about old surf music and guitars. He loaned me J.B.'s amp and asked me to bring it to Minam in July. At this point I started treating every visit with him as if it were my last. I really loved hanging out with him and I savored every moment.
In July, 2007 at the Fleser-Minam Weekend he was pretty tired, but he managed to help us herd cattle off of the hillside around the old school house and he stayed up late for the old school house jam with the cousins. He rocked the house on his keyboard and harmonica. Before I left Minam I bought a copy of a book called Gateway to the Wallowas in which he authored a chapter. I pinned him down for an autograph and he wrote "Drew- To my roommate, fellow musician, and vagabundos thru life Me casa su casa Come back Always and soon Uncle Chuck".
The last time I saw him was at Grandma and Grandpa's when he was in Medford around the holidays. This time he brought the best gift of all: his presence.
I knew his passing may be coming, but part of me truly believed and hoped that he would make it. I've had a hard time accepting that he is gone. Over the past week I've had an unusually good stroke of luck. I feel his energy and I know he's behind it. I don't have to accept his absence; he's still around us. Maybe I should go get a lottery ticket...
As I sit here thinking about life, it is hard to wrap words around what it feels like to lose someone who is such a part of the past. ...part of my class, my age; raised pretty much the same way we all were back then. How can it come so fast?
I can easily recall that huge smile, belly laugh and most of all the sound of Chuck's voice. It was not like any other. It has been years since I have seen Chuck, but I would be willing to bet that if I walked in a room and heard that voice, I would know exactly who was speaking. There is so much more as I really think about all of the 'times'... Grid Iron, competitions of ANY kind, dell's and Jack's. Fishing...
So many fond memories in my own head and so many more from all of you! I think we were all blessed in many ways by Chuck, and I think he was blessed too!
Such incredibly devoted friends, and such a loving, giving, close family!
Wouldn't you just love to go back in time (WAY back) for just one day and relive
one of the special memories?
When all is said and done, I am certain the gates opened wide and the trumpets sounded as Chuck entered the Gates of Heaven. He was a special one!
I look forward to seeing all of you at the memorial!
Dawn Selby-Powell summersun10@hotmail.com
from ROBERT CUTTERIDGE [67.42.194.199] on 2008-05-27 | delete
OH WOW! i REMEMBER THE DAYS & NITES IN cHEMELT gETTING MY ASS KICKED INTHE HOUSE WHERE WE LIVED FOR THAT WINTER across the street from the liquor store. steve broke his leg going down the hill behind house.
Dear friends - if you are having trouble posting photos to the photos page, please email them to me @ pattict@ix.netcom.com and I will add them for you.
(Chelsia Ann, I believe you are trying to add some photos)Peace, PCT
A mountain of a man with a gentle spirit.
It is evident we are better people having shared
laughter and love, and often understated wisdom,
with Chuck.
Adios mi amigo,
jeff
Chuck came into Portland for treatment last fall and I had an opportunity to spend a day with him, cruising REI for cross-country skis and Sierra Club calenders he wanted to buy for his friends back at the state park.
That day he purchased a plush Loon that called when you gave it a squeeze. We sat in the aisle at REI and closed our eyes, squeezing it over and over again relaxing to the calming call of the Loon. A loon that Dawn brought to him at the Hopewell house, that was beside him on the night stand until the day he passed.
But on the way to my car from REI that day, Chuck was humming "The Boxer" by Simon & Garfunkle, saying every third word as he couldn't quite remember the tune entirely. Convienently, I pulled out my IPOD and put it on. I put one ear bud in his ear and the other in mine and we sang softly together. He let out a big sigh when the song ended and said, "Thank you".
In the week before he passed, I couldn't get "Homeward Bound" out of my head so I listened to it over and over everyday in an effort to shake the repetitive chorus that stuck with me with every stride I took all day long. I thought to myself that it was an appropriate song considering the circumstances.
I came home Tuesday evening and looked up the words to The Boxer online. It's final two lines appropriately articulates my feelings about Chuck.
"I am leaving, I am leaving."
But the fighter still remains..."
July, 2007. I was eager. Eager and fortunate enough to get out a day early to the Fleser annual family reunion. It was a Thursday evening and my partner and I had every intention of helping get the motel and the school house yard ready for the on slot of family campers. After all, we are sort of a rowdy bunch.
Well, maybe there are just a lot of us.
It was just Chuck, Dawn, Sharla and I that evening. As dusk fell, we sat on the schoolhouse porch and talked about the good energy of the world, the power of feminine energy, and the immense expanse of the universe. Chuck spoke with reverence and wisdom about the beauty of life and even death.
It was a stolen moment from the Phaedo, a dialogue written by Plato from the perspective of Socrates right before he was put to death for his philosophies. In the dialogue Socrates talks about the afterlife and the immortality of the soul. Ultimately, it is the souls main objective to get the hell away from the human body, so that it can pursue it's most pure objective. While the soul is attached to the body's desires, it cannot fulfill its purpose. And although many people agree that both Socrates and Plato were down right jerks with too much time on their hands (like most other philosophers), I like to believe that now Chuck's soul is free from the restraints of his worldly body. He can and is everywhere, adding to the beauty we experience in this world, laughing with us when we are doubled over with happiness, spread across the universe in the great primordial soup in which we live.
When the darkness finally set in, we got up from the porch and stood in the middle of the schoolyard. We wrapped our arms around our loves and put our eyes to the sky. As he pointed to the edge of the Milky Way and guided us through the constellations, I marveled at the connection I felt within that trees that circled that schoolyard, the love that was emitted from the four of us embracing each other and the universe wrapping her big comforting arms around us.
How blessed we all are to have shared moments like this with such an unearthly individual such as Chuck. Thank you for the awakening, my uncle, and my friend.
from RIECHERS [70.230.205.162] on 2008-05-22 | deleteYou've always been the first to experiment and explore. Cut us a good trail, we're right behind you.
Love you,
Riechs
from JULIE WOLTHOFF COX [71.237.247.26] on 2008-05-20 | deleteI will always think of Chuck as a "golden one". Blonde, big and strong. All of us women in our class adored him. At the reunions, we always anticipated him showing up. At the 30th, we had some broken hearts. Chuck and I dated briefly our junior year-and I adored Chuck. He was younger- by 4 days- than me and I always gave him gas about that. I have been married for 37 years to an "older guy"--but he liked Chuck, too and the fact that I have cried for his leaving us at some point this week has been hard.
To the Class of 70!
Gary Cox and Julie Wolthoff Cox
We'll be there. Wouldn't miss it!
Here is the URL for Under the Greenwood Tree: http://www.greenwoodtree.com/
Love,
Michael and Deirdre
(Chuck's Niece & Nephew)
The first time I met Chuck, I was probably about 15,sitting in the waiting room of my orthodonist's office, mouth full of braces, looking at a left-behind notebook covered with all kinds of scribbles,"Medford Senior High Black Tornadoes" and "Chuck Fleser" written in big letters across the top. He walked in and gave me that brilliant smile of his and I was GONE!
For nearly 40 years, whether it be 5 years or 5 hours in between visits with him, my heart would still skip a beat when I'd hear that voice or see that smile. He will always have a very special place in my heart.
The heavens are brighter now with his wonderful light...
So long sweet, strong, sexy, beautiful man...I'll think of you always with love...
Laura
Celebration of Life for Chuck
All are invited to attend a Celebration of Life for Chuck with his family.
Date: June 21, 2008
Time: Beginning at 3 p.m.
Location: Under the Greenwood Tree, 3045 Bellinger Lane, Medford, OR
We will have food and music to celebrate the joy we have all derived by having Chuck in our lives. The family hopes his friends will join us in this celebration.
If any of you want to sing or play songs or bring pictures, please feel free to participate. If you have questions, you can contact me at 541-740-7002.
My brother Chuck,
You gifted us all with a vibe than can never be replicated. You strengthened our world by your sheer existence. You still do.
Missing you, my special friend,
Michelle
Gary, thank you for your words of wisdom. He is with the angels now, in fact, he is one.
God bless
from GARY SWINDLER on 2008-05-24
I am shocked and deeply pained to here of Charlies passing. I remember tha last time me were together, a couple years back. He was headed to Mexico and he had come to my shop in Eugene for me to prep his truck for the road trip.
It was grand to see him, it was like we just picked up where we left off earlier in our lives. Joking and telling lies, yukin' it up something fierce. It was around his birthday, so I presented him with an Elk hide, those blue eyes sparkled and he said "I brought you a gift as well, Grizz." He went to his cooler and pulled huge package of Bear meat. He laughed and told me that shot it from his window while he was still in bed. We both belly laughed and hugged! It felt like a couple of mountain men trading for supplies. It's time like that, when you know you have a true freind, for that I will always be thankful. Very few people know that I owe my life to Chuck twice over. He pulled out of the ocean while we surfing in Hawaii and once again while we were water sking with Graffton at Immirgrant Lake. After that we were bonded for life. He was always with a smile on his and looking for something fun to do.
We have lost a great human being and heaven has gained a great soul, tha angels are having a party and he is walking on gold. My thoughts and prayers go out to Pinky and Wilma and all of his family and friends.
"The lord bless you and keep you, the lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the lord lift up His countenance upon you, and give you peace."
Charlie, save me a bunk near yours when I'm called to glory.
Gary Swindler
Thank you Karen for giving us the word about a Celebration of Chuck's Life in Medford, I will pass the word as many have asked me in the last 24 hrs., even tonight several of us got
together to remember Chuck and visit....Tami Perry, John Jack, Cathy Ross, Julie Woltoff, Fred Rone, and their spouses...it was great talking about the days...Debi Flowers had asked us to
give a toast to Chuck and we did as she could not be here. We ran off a copy of Chuck's web site and everyone enjoyed all the readings and pics you guys are sharing with us down here...
so keep up the good work and Please let us know any future events coming our way....Rest easy and God Bless.....Mike and Donna O...medford
I am very sorry to hear about Chuck's passing. I just learned of his death and this site yesterday. I live just down the road from Hopewell House and I would have come to see Chuck.
Chuck and I shared some "forbidden" kisses in high school. I remember him fondly as the sweet, gentle giant with the "megawatt" smile.
Chuck was surrounded by loving family and friends in life and in death. What more could he have asked for.
My heartfelt sympathy.
Karen
*Chuck*
you rascal force of nature
too big for one body
you've jumped the traces
and transformed
to twinkle and hum everywhere
My dear brother, I already miss you incredibly and wish you were here with me in good health. But I know your time here on this earth is done and you have moved on never to be forgotten in my heart and soul. You were always my hero, from the time I knew you would protect me from anything. I gained a love for you that was so deep at times I thought you were my soul mate. Funny to feel that way about a brother at such a young age.
I now picture you flying with eagles and soaring above me at all times, still protecting me and reminding me of what you said in your later days. You told me, "Cindy, this world is all about love. nothing else. Remember to love intensely and forever". And I will. I will never forget our last lunch out on my 50th birthday, how we talked of God and your beliefs. It settled questions I had and made me feel so warm and safe for you. It is a lunch I will always remember, that time with you. That day was special.
Mom says she pictures you with Grandma Hattie and Grandpa Ernest holding hands with you in the middle and I feel settled thinking the same. Our parents were so strong throughout this battle and part of my pain was surely in watching them watch Chuck pass on. It was heart breaking and at times so unbearable to watch. I am so sorry for them and love them so much. Our family will never be the same without Chuck.
As my big brother and being the baby of the family he spoiled me immensley. He did things with me and for me that no other could. He guided me through my extremely rebellious years and sometimes that guidance got me into even more trouble, but it's ok brother because I was following you through life and though you were the best. You could do no wrong.
All of you just know this. This tragedy has brought this family so close that it will forever change us. We know now just how precious life is and how important we all are to each other. My advice to you is just as Chuck would say....love each other like this is your last day together and make each moment count, you never know when time will run out. No matter how much you expect something like this to finally come to an end, you can never be prepared for the loss you will feel.
Goodbye my brother, my hero, I love you so much and will hold you in my heart like I did every day of my life. You will be so missed. I saw rainbows on the way home on the day of your death and knew they were not only for you but from you telling me that you were free, happy, and alive in a way none of us can comprehend. "I'll fly away of Lord, I'll fly away. When I die, halleluah by and by, I'll fly away." Love, your baby sister.
I need to take a moment to thank everyone for your loving and kind words and thoughts for Chuck and for our family. Chuck was a strength and joy in our lives. He was my little brother, my mountain man, my super man...a blessing to our family and his dear friends. As hard as his last week was, it was a blessing to be a part of the end of his earthly journey. As he left this world to start his spitit journey we looked out the window to see a baby squrill and a large jay hopping in the trees. I believe they were there to send him on his way. I will miss him and love him forever.
Gabe just called and said he and Will are on their way to Minam tonight. He said he would shout Chuck's name down the canyon for all to hear.
There was a card at the Hopwell House that had a native American saying..."Without tears, there would be no rainbows." I hope you all see many rainbows...I know I am.
Love to you all
Laurie
That smile...that beautiful, beautiful smile. I will never forget it. My heart is broken for all of us…all of you...his wonderful family and his precious friends. How awesome to have such amazing friends and to be loved so genuinely by so many. God bless you all. Please let us know if there will be any kind of memorial for Chuck or where donations can be made in memory of him. Sather1tec@aol.com
To all of you who have written such wonderful things about Chuck, thank you.
We will have a Celebration of Life for Chuck in Medford. We are looking for the right outdoor location and expect it will happen sometime in June. We will post the details here on this site, as well as in the Medford Tribune. There will be a Celebration in Minam, as well, for all the friends he has made in that area.
His passing was peaceful and we are so thankful his difficult and painful journey is over.
I forget sometimes the enormous size and stature of what Chuck meant to so many. Football hero, Forest Ranger, past boy friend, Father, Brother, Son, Grandpa Choo Cho, Mountain Man.....the list could go on forever. To me, he was many of those things, but so much more. 40 years ago he gave me his gift of Love and friendship and NEVER waivred from it. He was soft when necessary and strong beyond words when needed. He was simply the greatest friend I have ever known. The legacy he leaves us all is also Great. His three children: Gabe, Will and Hannah and Leah and Jessica (Daghter in Laws) along with 4 incredible grand children, they are all as remarkable as he was. I Love you all very much. His parents Lowell and Wilma Fleser are the remarkable Parents you would expect a man like this to have. I Love you both and I am grateful for the Love and kindness you have always shown me. His sisters: Laurie, Karen and Cindy (and all their children) Loved this man the same way we all did....completely. The last few years we have all traveled a long and difficult path with Chuck. I NEVER EVER, not for one second, believed he would not defeat this challange like all other challanges in his life. Only in the last month had I come to realize his end was near. I will hold you close and tight until we are together again my brother. I Love you so completely Chuck and I will miss you all the days of my life.
I want to say a special Thank You to Dawn, Steve and Janet Skinner and Scott and Patti Thusrton for all your exceptional acts of Love and Friendship and Kindness. Without your help Chucks path would have been very different this past year. I feel very fortunate to have you all as friends and I know Chuck Loved you beyond words. Thank you all. Now the words I never thought I would say....Good Bye my friend...I Love you.
Bruce
What special gifts this soul has given to so many.
I now smile every chance I get & enjoy life with a new light.
I will always think of Chuck as I work in his beloved Minam @ the State Park. thanx for the good times...
3 in the morning lying here remembering our 'ol buddy chuck. He was a sharer, a dreamer and a real warrior! Life took a new tilt for us still aboard. Remember our fallen comrade - cherish the memory of his spirit for it is strong. You always wanted Chuck on your side. He's now there always. Thank you Chuck. May you rest in peace my dear friend.
I too have just heard about Chucks death.He faught hard to live as long as he could a strong soul.
I remember one incident which showed his sense of humour...Annie had just given birth to Gabe and Chuck was making a placenta stew up at the schoolhouse....he was quite pleased with himself on such a wierd meal...but felt justified in creating a strengthening dish for the mother of his child. A local logger friend, Robert Long, came by to see the new family member and Chuck strode towards him in the pine trees below the schoolhouse to offer a taste of the stew...not mentioning where the meat came from. As Robert remarked on the tenderness of the elk meat Chuck disclosed its source. Robert choked and spit... then burst into wholehearted laughter along with Chuck on the bizzarness of the meal. It was a great day.
I also remember Chuck bearing the 12 pound frozen turkey up to Tryon Ranch in Hells Canyon one Thanksgiving. He had a pack of food as well and it was 5 miles straight up. He carried it like a shot-putt his strong calf muscles working like pistons. The next morning we found out that the ranch was the home of a large flock of wild turkeys!
Chuck was always somewhat regal in his bearing and he was King of the Hill in minam. I am glad he was able to live his last years in the place he loved best. My love and compassion for his family. June
Chuck... May you rest in peace, my friend!
Marty
To Chuck's family: Please take comfort in knowing that he's alive in your hearts and he'll always be with you at your side.
Thank you for having this site. When I read these comments, it is such a testamonial to the spirit of the man we all knew and loved . Many of us were touched by him when we were young and then many others were touched throughout his life. I have read comments here from people I haven't seen or heard from in 30 yrs. So, even in his last days, he was bringing people together. What a blessing his life was. With all our prayers, I'm sure he's well on his way to heaven and someday, we may all meet again.
Please take care.
Debi Madden (Flowers)
I am so sorry and troubled to learn of Chuck's passing. I was a football teammate in the class beneath Chuck. There were so many manly men in that group of seniors, but none more so than the gentle giant Chuck Fleser. We all looked up to him and counted him as a friend. I am having breakfast with Marlin Wallace in the morning so we can toast his memory. I will miss him greatly, Larry Fariss '71
To Chuck's Family & Friends,
I just received an e-mail from my close friends, Mike & Donna O'Grady, informing me of Chuck's passing. First let me say how sorry I am for your loss. Although I have not had a lot of contact with Chuck since we graduated from Medford High School, I always remembered him as an easy going guy with a big smile and a zest for life. I was lucky enough to have played a few years of football with Chuck and remember what a tuff and competitive guy he was. From what I have learned reading some of the comments on this web site, it appears he fought the good fight all the way to the end. No one could have asked more of him. This fall when I am in the mountains of eastern Oregon on my annual bow hunting adventure, I will say a little prayer for Chuck. Again I am sorry to hear about Chuck's passing. I know he will be missed in a big way.
Sincerely, Kevin Bethel
Dear Family and Friends of Chuck...I just read about his passing on, we are
saddened hear in Medford to hear this news. Chuck will always be remembered
by Donna and I and so many more I can not even start to name....even tonight
Scott Spiegelberg called and we were talking about old times...Wow what a Game
we had in Hawaii guys...remember....and all the Surfing....Chuck had a blast and played
one Hell of a Game too, I also remember his Dad coming to alot of the practices and I don't
think he missed a game..he Loves his Son....as I do Mine....ok Take care and God Bless all of you and remember our Hearts are with you at this time...Go on my friend and enjoy the Surf,
catch a big one for me....Mike and Donna O...Medford Class of 70
To Chuck's Family..
I am so sad to hear of Chuck's passing..I know this has been a long hard battle for all of you. His pain and worries are gone now and he now begins his next journey....................he will be forever in our hearts.....
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families during these sad times.
Elaine, Tom & Earlene
It is with deep sadness that I read about Chuck's passing this evening. For such a strong guy he had a very gentle spirit. His smile was infectious and genuine. Though it has been many years since I have had the privilege of visiting with him I am still aware that he touched my life with his own. May God wrap His loving arms around his family and close friends as they remember and cherish a wonderful person!
Dear Friends
It is bittersweet to report that Chuck has gone to the light.He passed today, May 22, 2008 @ 5:39 pm.He was surrounded by family and friends.At last, he has found peace.
Chuck,
Thanks for the memories and experiences we shared on this journey. As you transition in the ether, know that you take along the love and friendship of so many you have touched. May your new journey take you to a place of infinite beauty, peace and tranquility. Until our paths cross again.
Greg Preston
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I will always think of Chuck as a "golden one". Blonde, big and strong. All of us women in our class adored him. At the reunions, we always anticipated him showing up. At the 30th, we had some broken hearts. Chuck and I dated briefly our junior year-and I adored Chuck. He was younger- by 4 days- than me and I always gave him gas about that. I have been married for 37 years to an "older guy"--but he liked Chuck, too and the fact that I have cried for his leaving us at some point this week has been hard.
To the Class of 70!
Gary Cox and Julie Wolthoff Cox
I am yet another one who has loved you forever, dear friend... all the way back to ou grade school days. You have been the subject of many conversations with Nancy Anderson, Karen Kellenberger, Nancy Shepard, and myself...we all love you and have carried you in our thoughts and prayers, but had no idea how to contact you. Many thanks to John Jack who just sent this website to me. Thank you to Steve who I have heard has so lovingly taken care of you. That is the Steve I know. Be strong, Chuck...know that you are in my heart always.
Found in northeast ore
riding stars shooting through the midnight blue
rip roarin’ through the billion milk belt to
fly with his brown bat and eagle brothers
listening to the frosty mountain rivers rush
to the great ocean in the mouth of time
blazing the trail through eon rich forest loam
scaling the rocky precipice to
call forth the northern cosmos light
emanating the rhythms and notes of geologic eternity
baja intoxication sharing the universal spirit
in a glen of golden tamarack he is the giant
extrapolating something beyond
the bounds of probability.
Much love is with you.
Hey Chuck...Long time no see ya , Miss you stopping by my old Coffee shop and sharing the
stories from the days...I have been checking out the comments and man you are Blessed with many friends who Love you man..How Cool is that...well you have always touched everyone who has met you with that Inner Light...Keep it Glowing my friend...our Grandson also has a site like yours ..at Caring Bridge at Doernbecher in Portland...he is 4...but doing great and what a fighter he is..just like you Chuck...oh Tami Perry is here and has been hanging with Donna, John Jack and Bethel who came down and she said she loved the Post office game at your 8th grade party and the Song Whats New Pussycat.....didn't Tom Petty and the 8th grade Heartbreakers do that one ? I don't know ask Scott ....maybe he will remember...talk to you soon ....God Bless you man...Mike & Donna O...Medford
Chuck! I put another comment on here, but Im not that comp. lit. so not sure where it went. Im thanking John Blackhurst for sending me this sight............ so I can tell you I have Always Loved YOU. I did save you from having your head shaved when you were 14 or 15! Haha. At least I could drive and you couldnt! Im so glad you are with Family and Friends, and I just want you to know Im sending you Love and Light...... Thanks for being such a good friend all these years and know I appreciate who you are! Love Linda
I just wanted to send a short note to Chuck and family to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers.....all the noise in the corner ...that would be Tom and I cheering you on... please know that we love you!
Hi all,
I just learned about Chuck's illness tonight and I am heartbroken to hear of his struggle.
I haven't seen him in many years but he has always held a special spot in my heart. When I first met him, we were in 6th grade at Roosevelt and because of Chuck, I am a much better speller. We were always fighting for that 1st chair in our spelling class. When I picture Chuck in my mind, it's always with that big infectious smile of his, that warms the cockles of your heart!
My heart goes out to his family and friends. I know from personal and professional experience that this is one of the most difficult time in your lives. So please, take care of yourself. Chuck needs you healthy and strong. When he feels better give him a hug and tell him I'm praying for his recovery.
Take care and let me know how I can help.
Debi Madden (Flowers) debimad@aol.com
I sat with Chuck for a while this morning (Monday) at Hopewell House while on my way to work, but he did not really awaken. I saw him last Wednesday morning before I left for Seattle - his first day at the place - and that day he was alert and eating Meford Valley strawberries and ice cream that his mom was feeding him. Even though he has changed so much over the last week, he still looks so handsome to me.This evening, just as I was getting ready to wrap it up at work, my cell phone rang and it was Paul, the travel agent at NIH in Bethesda, checking up on things! He had booked many flights back and forth across the country for Chuck during his travels to and from NIH, and had taken a special interest in this interesting and insightful man from Oregon.Paul and I met over the phone in March/April while I was trying to arrange to accompany Chuck home on his last flight back from the NIH. He booked our flight, and had jumped through hoops to help allow me to fly as Chuck's guardian. Chuck made sure I got to meet Paul in person before we left. Paul visited Chuck during his inpatient stays, played guitar for him in his hospital room and shared his personal time w/ him. He was impressed with Chuck as a special soul, and took great interest in eastern Oregon, Minam, the schoolhouse, etc. He told me this evening that he often thought about Chuck's advice to spend as much time with loved ones as possible, and was making a point to spend time with his mom, brothers and sisters and to cherish that time together. Chuck's gift to Paul.If any of you have met Paul, you know how important music is in his life - another thing he shared w/ Chuck. He said he plans to dedicate a song to Chuck the next time he plays in Georgetown. Of course I cried my eyes out after I got off the phone ---
Hello Karen -
Thank you so much for taking the time to share your news on Chuck. I wish there was more to say but I can't find any words. Hospice is a wonderful organization and I hope all of you find great comfort there.
The name of the hospice center where Chuck is staying is Legacy Hopewell House. This is the link to their web site. http://www.legacyhealth.org/body.cfm?id=697
We have all worked so hard to keep Chuck at home (at Steve and Janet's) in good general health and comfortable with his pain. He has multiple tumors which involve his lungs, liver and other organs, as well as several large masses near his spin and in his pelvis. While he was participating in a treatment program, we were unable to get any hospice help for him. This past week has seen a rapid decline in his quality of life. A week ago he could get up by himself to go the bathroom and walk around the house for a short period. Now, he has to use a walker and needs help feeding himself, as he shakes too much. He doesn't make conversation. We have to help him shift his body in bed and get him up and down. One of us sleeps in the room with him at night, so we are there if he needs us. When asked, on a scale of 1 to 10, where is your pain, he said, “it’s way out there.” So, on Tuesday, in a conference with his cancer doctor, Candace, Gabe, Steve, Cindy, and me, he decided to leave the treatment program and asked the doctor to contact hospice. The doctor told Chuck, if he gets stronger, and the pain gets under control, he would let him re-enter the trial, if Chuck wanted. What a wonderful man to understand Chuck’s need for continued hope.
On Tuesday evening the hospice in-take nurse came out to see what they could do to help us with Chuck’s care, and to assess Chuck’s health and to work with the hospice doctor via telephone to make immediate changes in his pain meds. Candace was there, along with Janet, Steve, Gabe, Hanna, and me. (I’m his Monday/Tuesday care-giver and had been there since Sunday night.) We went over what we have been doing for him nutritionally and the rapid decline in his strength. While the nurse communicated over the phone with the hospice doctor to make changes in the pain meds, everything changed. Based on Chuck’s physical symptoms, the doctor insisted Chuck be transported to the hospice center immediately. He believed there was a strong risk Chuck would start having seizures while we modified his pain meds. I didn’t even know hospice had a center. I thought they just helped you take care of people at home. Mom and Dad were finally on their way up to see Chuck and were spending the night at my place in Tangent and planned to come to Steve and Janet’s Wednesday morning. They couldn’t come earlier in the month because of Dad’s health. I have to admit, I lost it, thinking the doctor’s would put Chuck on some strong meds where he would no longer recognize Mom and Dad, just as they were finally going to be with him. I called my daughter, Lindsay, and asked her to get to my house right away, so she could drive Mom and Dad to the hospice center in Portland, and called Mom and Dad and told them what was going on. This was about 8:30 p.m. on Tuesday. The ambulance finally found Steve and Janet’s around 10 o’clock. Steve road in the ambulance with Chuck, Chuck slept, and the rest of us followed along. Mom and Dad were at the center by the time Chuck got there. Mom rented the hospice guest room for the next 5 nights. It costs $15 per night and is a large room with a queen and twin bed, and pull out queen sofa. It has a large bathroom attached. Mom and Dad spent the night with Chuck, in his room. They would take turns dozing in a comfortable recliner in the large lounge outside his room. The rest of us went home for some sleep. Steve, Cindy, Lindsay, and I got back to Skinner’s at 1 a.m.
By Wednesday morning, Chuck’s pain level was a 4 or 5, when the nurses questioned him. I saw him sit up by himself, without help, turn and sit on the side of the bed. His window looks out on a deciduous forest. He is not unhappy in this place. The staff never says there are too many of us there. This is a wonderful place and is close to Gabe and Hanna’s homes. Will is driving up Thursday night and will stay until Monday. My sister, Laurie and her son Jason are there until Sunday. Dawn, who is such a rock for Chuck, will be there soon. Gabe told his dad he has fought more than any one could ever ask him to and it is okay if he wants to stop fighting now. Chuck said okay. The nurse told me yesterday, Chuck is very fragile physically. People who want to see him, should plan to do it very soon.
If you go to see him, here are some things to be aware of. Watch the perfumes, after shaves, and lotions. He doesn’t like strong smells. Keep you visit to a few minutes. He really isn’t up to conversations and isn’t interested in hearing stories. His focus has changed. The meds make him slower to respond, so give him extra time if you ask a question. If you are in his room with other people, take your conversations out of the room. People having conversations in his room, causes stress for him. He will smile and be glad to see you, though. Remember to smile and tell him you love him, and do your crying outside. And you will cry.
But still, I continue to hope this very strong man, with a huge will to live, will once again rally. He continues to be my strong big brother, who told bullies to leave me alone, or else.
Just a quick update. Chuck has been moved to the Hope House and is recieving hospice care and treatment for his pain. Almost all of the family is with him or around him. I will be heading over soon and will try to get somebody to post more that knows more. As of this morning he is already getting relief from his pain and he is comfortable in the new surroundings.
Hello Chuck and friends,
Greetings from Paris. (well that's another story)But, can I say, what a small world! That Candace who knows Chuck, would be in the very same hospital where he was seeking a cure is in a way another miracle.Candace, I do hope that you can keep us updated on his prognosis and treatment as best you can.plus prieres pour tu, Chuckpaix et bon chance,PCT
Chuck,
I am so full of Love, Faith and support for you. I will never stop believing you will overcome this plague, because you are the strongest person I have ever known. The strength and convction under which you have faced this has been inspirational to us all and has reminded us what is truly important in Life. Not things, not personal gain but the Love of friends and family.
Thank you Candice for your Love and support and for the explanation of what is going on now. We will continue to pray and believe that this will be that final step in Chuck's defeat of this disease and all the people that will benefit from his journey in the future.
I want to say to all of you how grateful we are for Steve and Janet Skinner and the unbelieveable support and comfort they give Chuck every day in so many ways. They are special friends and very special people in this world. Thank you both, we all Love you.
B
Greetings to Chuck's "framily".... this is his ol' friend Candace from Portland reporting in. I have met some of you a long time ago and some of you only recently, but have been connected to Chuck in some fashion over the past 30 years. For the past few years, he has asked me to be involved in his medical treatment.
Over the past two weeks, Chuck has been jumping through hoops to qualify for a research study through the new Providence Cancer Center in Portland. The princial investigator of two melanoma studies, Dr. Walter Urba, used to work at the NIH, and Chuck's doctors at the NIH referred him to this Portland location. As fate would have it, I work at Providence Portland (I am the operations manager for the clinical laboratory there). Today, Chuck bravely survived the final gauntlet of tests and was officially enrolled in the Anti-CTLA-4 (or Ipilimumab) study. He received his first dose of ipilimumab (don't worry, nobody can pronounce it!) through his chest port and did well. The study continues for 24 weeks, with infusions given only every 21 days. So now he just needs to rest, and get a good handle on pain control. That is quite the challenge right now. All positive thoughts, energy and actions accepted! Special thanks to Steve and Janet for their loving support. XOXOX Candace
Chuck has been resting in our home since Friday April 18 and he has some good days and some not so good days. He is constantly in pain and the pain meds are making his life difficult. He is eating and the nausea is under control as he spends his days under the loving care of family members. His sisters Karen and Cindy, his daughter Hanna, and daughter- in-law Leah are taking turns spending days with him. Pain management is our main goal as his pain level sets the tone for the day. He is scheduled to see his oncologist on Friday where they will insert a port in his chest area, which will make it a lot easier to receive fluids and future treatments. That afternoon he is getting MRIs as part of his study. Sunday he goes to a neurologist to determine if they can relieve some of pain by deadening the nerves in his back. This would be big!!! Monday he has a CT scan in the AM and if all goes well he starts his treatment later in the day. Through all this he remains hopeful and his wisdom is intact. He is a little too weak for phone calls right now…but that might change when his strength returns. In the meantime, feel free to call. We are happy to give you an update. Steve and Janet
Morning! I have posted new pictures on the photos page. Hey Janet, try to persuade Chuck to write us some pearls of wisdom on the blog here. Sending lots of prayers his way, PCT
Just a quick update on our mountain man....he arrived to snow, hail, sleet, and sunshine at the Skinnerosa Ranch. Love the Springtime in Oregon! Sleep deprivation, pain, and those lovely moments of nausuasness have filled sweet Chuck's day. He was able to sleep for nice extended naps however, the warmth of the woodstove and background chatter must have helped! What a great visit from Jeff, Janice and Candace to fill the afternoon! Laughter is such good medicine. The power of friendship is such an amazing strenth to offer. I'm not sure what the upcoming days will bring, I'll try to provide updates as I know them. In the mean time, I would like to extend an open door and warm cup of tea to all who wish to stop in for a visit. Janet
I love you Peri.
Thanks for your words. I look forward to you spending time with Chuck.
He will be there this week and the weather will turn.
Now, Fix up my horseshoe pit.
It does my heart good to hear all the wonderful things people say about Chuck. This is his baby sister Cindy. I have always had a deep connection with Chuck especially as a younger lady, in my late teens and such. And hopefully we are connected now as well. But then it was so strong that I loved him in my heart of hearts....and when he first went to Minam to live, I felt like I had lost something dear to me. It broke my heart and I mourned for a long time. Now I can't wait to travel to see him in Minam and get together with family and with him and Dawn at their home. I always feel like I am home there too,. I long to spend time there.
Peri, I feel so blessed to have you and Robbie there to help Chuck and Dawn, you are a God send and I am so excited to see what is in store for you both there. I think you will find a peace there that is no comparison to anything else. I hope you fall in love with it as many of us have.
Well, Chuck has seen the new Doctor and it looks good for him to get into this newest study. There are details that are extensive about what the treatment is and I am learning about it. It involves him immune system again and is a clinical trial. I understand it will take 2 to 4 months to complete and that he will be in Portland area with us for that time, whether it is off and on or on going,. I know he will be needing our support for sure. He is strong and has faith and is fighting to beat this. If anyone can it will be him,. All I know is that he is my hero and I am glad you all love him as much as I do.
Love Cindy
Chuck is at Steve and Janets 1-503-722-5675
much love
B
evening
I second Bruce's words to Peri. They are loving words that will lend tremendous support to a very battered (radiated) person.
If anyone has news of Chuck's itinereay, please share. I know that he was planning to go home yesterday. Is he back in Ore.? I am happy that he will be back to receive his much earned reward in person
Peri, your beautiful words brought a tear to my eye but warmed my heart. We have not met but you so clearly said what we All feel. That there is no one in the world like Chuck Fleser. I love him with all my heart and soul, so does my wife and children. He has a profound effect on all that meet him. Our world is a better place because Chuck has always been in it. Chuck is recieving an award from the Oregon Tourism folks and God knows he is a walking billboard for Wallowa County and specifically his beloved Minam. I can't wait to see him.
Thank you for your Love of Chuck....he's everybody's Mountain Man
Bruce
"They" say that you learn more about a person you meet in the first five minutes of knowing them then you do knowing them a whole lifetime. Now who in the hell "they" are who said that who knows, but they know what there talking about as I felt this, when I reunited with Charlie- the last time I saw him, I think I was 6- I am 22 now. I am Bill Riechers daughter, Peri, and when my dad started telling me how Charlie was sick, all I could recall of Charlie from my youth was he was the mountain man in my life, the big bear hugs he gave were my most clear memories of him. I felt that memory close to me, as two present beings connect that moment is timeless, even experienced by a child.
Charlie called me one day a couple months ago and it was as it is, two souls reconnecting again in this world. We continued to check in, he raved of the beauty of Minam, we talked about gardens, mushrooms, gem stones and the wonders of life. The next time we talked about a month ago he spoke of his fear and the eternal darkness that is present- when I hung up the phone that night I looked at my sweet love Robbie and I think he knew what was needed-- we left that night at 2:30am for Minam Oregon, and arrived through terrible snow storms two days later, on Charlie's birthday and the day before he left again for treatment. We are here in Minam now and will be here until we are no longer needed. It takes a special being to remain clear in a child's mind, it takes a special being to move me miles away from home, it takes a special being to be present in moments of agony, it takes a precious being to be who Charlie is to me- my forever Mountain man.
Hi all. This is Laurie Evans, Chuck's oldest sister. Just wanted to thank all of you for your love, prayers and constant support to Chuck. You make him stronger.
Love to you all.
Laurie
Hello All,
I just found out about this site when Janet Skinner was here with me this week. I read some of the previous postings and noticed Chuck has not mentioned his latest achievement. Chuck was nominated for a 2007 Oregon Tourism Achievement Award and won!!!
He was nominated for his (our) work with the Steelhead Fish Train. I just found out this last week and now he gets to come home and accept his award himself on April 6 at the Governor's Conference on Tourism. I will be there with him and can't wait to see him. It is so nice to be recognized for all the effort that we have put into the train.
Take care
Good Sunday morning,
Spoke to Chuck last night. He is through 8 of his 10 radiation treatments. They will finish up early this week and plan to send him back to Ore on Wednesday. The radiation therapy has makes him really tired.
Chuck's visit back to Bethesda was supposed to be to tackle the tumor that started growing again in his back. After a few tests they discovered that the tumor had spread into his spine and pelvis making it too dangerou to operate on. Needless to say, very disapointing news.
But ,as his doctors promised, they looked at alternatives. When he returns to Ore. they want him to start a new treatment there called CTLA-4 (see research tab for more info.) They hope that this new therapy will go after the tumor they were not able to operate on. This treatment had its first trials @ Bethesda and one of their former colleagues is now based in Portland. They plan to refer Chuck to Dr. Urba who is Director of Cancer Research at Providence Medical (see research page for more info on Dr. Urba)
Just received the information on this bog site. We think of you often and pray for your speedy recovery every day and can't wait to see your smiling face.
Happy Easter to all you resurrection believers. And to those of you that don't, I'll see you in hell a little later. Have an egg... it will make you feel better. All kidding aside, have a wonderfull spring day. My love always Chuck
Greetings from Bethesda!
and a Good Friday to all.
Chuck here, stuck here... from hero to zero. I'm feeling better every day. Started radiation yesteday. I have a couple weeks to go dating Madame Curie. She makes me glow. Will be home for treatments in Oregon after that. I hope you are all well and happy wehereve oyu might be. I know that I coudlnt get throug this without all the love and joy from you all and all the wonderful peopole here @ NIH.
Today is the beginning of the new season. Happy Spring to all.
More later love, Chuck
Hi gang -
I just spoke to Chuck. He is back in Bethesda. I'm sad to say he is in so much pain. It is in his back and spine. Even the mix of morphine, oxycontin and more is not giving him much relief.I guess his condition has been getting worse since returning from Mexico.He is going into surgery on Thursday to tackle yet another tumor.You can reach him in his room @ 301.451.2968. I will be in DC this weekend and will try to bust him out of NIH for brief periods if he feels up to it (though I fear that is very unlikely.) Feel free to call me for news, my cell is 818.519.5970He sounds scared and in despair.He wants to to hear from you.Keep those prayers comingPCT
Hello
I just spoke to Chuck. He is leaving Bethesda today to get back to snowy Minam. The fish train starts running!He is in a fair amount of pain due to the rib extraction. Keep those prayers goingPeace, PCT
I hope you don't mind my butting in here but that is great news. I had a feeling that Chuck was going to get the best of this thing. I am impressed!
Hey, I wanted to mention that I had a great time hanging with all of you in September. I hadn't laughed that hard in years. Bruce's running commentary during the slide show was too much. I felt guilty for not doing shit while I was there but I am over that now. Looking forward to see Mr. Thurston on the big screen on super Bowl Sunday.
Happy New Year all
We just spoke to Chuck for 45 minutes and his energy and spirits are very high. He really sounds like his old self. He is in Minam and getting ready for the big storm that is about to hit. He will be there until the end of January when he goes back east for a check up. He remains pain and drug free and feels himself getting stronger every day. I hope you all had a terrific Holiday and we sincerely hope 2008 is the best year ever for us all....especially Chuck.
Much Love
B
Hi all -
Chuck is on his way back to Minam. He has some things that need doin'. I posted new photos from Bill and a couple more from Bruce.
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Evening to all -
Happy Holidays1
Yes, indeed Chuck is our Christmas miracle. We talked to him last night and can confrim what Bill is saying, he sounds great and dare we say... near normal.
Bill - email me those pix that you want to post to the site.
patti.thurston@designory.com
I promise that I will post for you.
Peace and love
PCT
I mean with or without the cancer.
I have disgusting pictures I want to share. How do I submit them? God damn computers!
I am accepting donations for Charlie and I to take a trip around the world. Minimum contribution $10,000.
Chuck called me from the airport yesterday and gave me the news that doctors declared him a miracle. We all new that already, right. A miracle he lasted this long in the first place. Congradulations Charlie. Love ya man!
Sorry all
Correct Skinner phone number:
1-503-722-5675
Bruce's howl at the airport may have sent security into a frenzy, but what a welcoming sight to see Chuck! The sweet Oregon rain greeted Chuck's arrival, he was happy to feel it! This cross country trip seems to have been less exhausting than previous ones. While incredibly tired, he is without the pain that usually accompanies travel :) Mabel has already found her place on the couch with Chuck and Sage is sticking close by. What a sight! Thanks for adding our phone number Bruce. Call, write, or stop by.
Chuck is arriving at PDX at 8:46 PM Thursday 11-29-2007. Gabe, Leah, the Skinners and Judy and I will greet him. We expext it to be short and sweet as we are sure he will be exhausted. He will be at the Skinners at 1-503-722-3675 for the next 4-5 days. He has to be back in Maryland on the 17th for scans and follow up. Try him tomorrow at Steve and Janets as he will be alone while they work during the day.
I cannot wait to see that smile.
Much Love to you all
Bruce
Chuck, the couch is ready! We are anxiously waiting for your return. I would like to extend a warm invitation to everyone to visit our home and spend some time with Chuck. A cup of tea, a bowl of soup, a quiet visit, or sharing some crazy stories to surround Chuck with the love and community of support which will help in his regaining of strength.
Wow Charlie what a week it's been.
I tried to call several times over the week end but could not reach you. Steve filled me in on the side affects you are suffering through. Your strength and courage are mind blowing. I am confident that this will all have been worth it and we will look back at this in amazement....while catching Stealhead down that cold ass canyon in March. I will see you in a few days....hang in there....you are eternally my Brother and I love you!!!
Sunday night...
We talked to Chuck tonight. He still sounds good but he has had to face a couple of new challenges.
Thanksgiving - he did have the traditional meal in his room with Will and Hannah.
After Thanksgiving, the hearing trouble got worse and a temproary blindness set in. The eyesight got better this weekend. But, he had to endure drilling holes in his ears to try to improve the hearing. Chuck said that it hurt so bad that it made him cry. I commiserated with him that I was a swimmer as a kid with constant ear infections and Chuck said that he had the same experience growing up.
The cancer treatment is getting great marks!
The kids have gone home so Chuck is on his own. He may have to have more ear work tomorrow. He thinks that he will travel back to OR on Wed and will spend a few days with Steve and Janet before heading back to Minam.
He will need to go back to Bethseda in a couple of weeks for a series of scans that should last a day or two then sees himself back in Medford by Christmas.
Morning all -
I spoke to Chuck yesterday. He was back in his room with Hannah and Will at his side. The new phone # is 301.451.2974. They moved him out of ICU on Wed. night. He sounds fantastic. Really! He had been out for a walk with the kids and was admiring the fall colors. Chuck said " I wrestled with the devil to hell and back." I finished it for him " and you won."
BTW, if you do call Chuck you will have to speak up. His hearing has been affected by the treatment. Hopefully, that is temporary.
He is so thankful for all the support and love sent his way. He thinks that he will be back in Oregon by next Friday.
from KARENTOKUDA on 2007-11-21 | delete
Hope you don't mind if I butt in on your site, but wanted to give you an update. Chuck was moved out of ICU this afternoon. Hanna and Will spent the day walking with him in the halls. They will share Thanksgiving dinner with him on his floor tomorrow. His new phone number is 1-301-451-2974.
Morning -
Happy Thanksgiving! Very good news and pray that he moves back to his room today.
The last phone # that I had for Chuck was 301.451.2972 if they are returning him to the same room.
Chuck,
What a great gift to hear that you're improving and what profound meaning that gives to tomorrows Thanksgiving! It has felt surreal to go through our normal daily routines knowing what might be happening to you. I wonder if you can feel this strong web of love, support and faith we've held in our hearts for you. Bruce and I would give anything if we could be there to hug you in person.
You're in our thoughts always and we can't wait to talk to you soon-
Love from Judy S.
from JANET AND STEVE [71.34.93.149] on 2007-11-21
Great news! Just talked with Chuck's mom and she said they spoke to Chuck on the phone! Hannah and Will are with him and they had him sitting up in a chair! He's coming around, even talked fishing with his dad. So glad to hear this move towards improvement. Hugs to all!
Patti,
bless your heart for giving us the forum to express our Love and Prayers for Chuck. He assured me that he was going to grow old with us so not to worry....typical Fleeser. He is lonely but never alone because we all love hih so much. I just spoke to Gabe CHUCK IS BEING RETURNED TO HIS ROOM ON THANKSGIVIVG.....Will Fleser's cell number is 1-541-531-8375. He will be there through Friday.
How strong can one man be......I Love you Chuck
Thanks for doing this. Does anybody have Chucks new ph#? Bill
What a great idea for communication and sharing thoughts of strength and love for Chuck! My walk today in the woods with the dogs was a glorious reminder of the energy we all share. Be Strong.
Wow! This website is a great idea. It is 9:00 pm pst did anyone get an update today?